If im pregnant what should i do?

[Heather Brotherton]

Im not for sure but i have been spottin the last couple days. I finally decided to tell my husband that i might be pregnant. He told me that he wanted me to move back to states when he deploys he doesnt want me to be here by myself with a baby.
But i really dont want to move back bc of fam stress and ill be towards the end of my pregnancy. I dont think i want to move back, bc ill already have too much stress with kyle bein deployed. I really dont want family and family friends tellin want to do. Bc ill snap on their ass and i dont care who it.

Alot of stress = high risk pregnancy

[TryingPatience]

You should not worry about this until you need to. If you are pregnant, I wouldn't recommend making any decisions beyond eating habits and prenatal vitamins until you're in your 2nd trimester.

[Heather Brotherton]

i have to figure out where im goin to live, bc he deploys in about 5 months. I dont go live with my parents, bc my mom is hell bent on not wantin me pregnant.

[jazz( jasmine )]

do you have enough support where you are living now ?? and if being around your fam will be too much for you stay where you are its not worth the stress

[Amy Elizabeth]

Trying is totally, right- one step at a time.

[Shanna]

I agree with the ladies, you should make sure that you are pregnant before you put all this stress on yourself. Five months is more than enough to get things in order. If you are pregnant, don't worry about anything but taking care of yourself the first trimester. I would say wait a few days and go pick up a pregnancy test! If you are, Congrats!

[Tia Levine]

I can't believe this! I went through the same thing today but I'm super scared. I'm really young and Bear is in Afghanistan.:( I feel so lost right now to be truthful.

[Heather Brotherton]

thanks ladies. Im startin to meet people. Since i have moved here a month a go, i really havent had the chance to meet to many wives. Jus about everybody is on the last block leave before deployment. i meet one wive last night and she was goin psycho on her husband, yellin at him and everything. im hopeing the next Frg meetin i can meet some wives. One of the ladies i know i met her on myspace maybe movin to ft. reily for her husband long term care. Me and her were suppose to meet up the week her husband got his motorcycle wreak.

To meet to new people so touch and go with me and my husband. we learned that the hard way at benning.

Im jus prayin that i figure out what to do.

[Heather Brotherton]

i have a hard time doin that. lisa you know me all too well sometimes.