Strip Clubs

[Casey Arrington]

So I want to see how other ladies and other couples feel about strip clubs. My husband is in Vegas right now, and went out last week. Strippers...I don't care. Money, yeah...he spent a little too much because he bought rounds for everyone and drank a little too much for himself. But he was completely honest and up front about it, and for that he knows I trust him and I'm not concerned.

Now tonight, my girlfriends and I are going out to the Male Revue. I told my husband last night and he said "I don't give a shit baby....go have fun" and that was that. We have an awesome marriage full of trust and I have no intentions of doing anything beyond the lines of trust we have. I'm mainly going out to have a goofy time and laugh my ass off, just like I know my husband did.

It does not bother me because we are both human beings and are perfectly comfortable with admitting it's nice to go window shopping...look but don't touch. I personally believe that being strict on strip clubs in your marriage shows your insecurities (no offense to anyone here, please don't take it personally) but I also know that some people don't mind them but just don't plain out don't like them, and that's okay, too!

So I just thought I'd think of something new to talk about. All opinions are welcome and while I don't expect sugar coating I also don't expect anyone to get upset over what someone says...nothing here is to be taken personally and to each their own.

So....what is YOUR stance on strip clubs?

[WifeToBe]

lol weeell i just don't like strip clubs period...I think i would be a lil disappointed if I found out my hubby went to one but def. wouldn't start a fight about it cus i trust him and he is always upfront and honest too...but yea i just don't like them and i would prefer he not ...ehh...

[Amanda]

i too feel the same way as you do. Me and my soon to be husband (one week to go...haha) have always had a long distance relationship, i live in California and he is based in Washington State and we both trust each other. He has always told me when he was going to a strip club, which is mostly when they are deployed due to the fact that where he lives there is only one strip club and its nasty no one really goes there. When he first asked me to be his girlfriend it was three days before he deployed and i remember him calling me saying hey just wanted to let you know that we are going to a strip club tonight, is that okay..i was like "yeah go have fun" the phone call later that night was funny...i asked him if he got a lap dance and he was like "NOOOO" i said why not? he goes "because i have a girlfriend" it was really cute to see that even after only being his girlfriend for four days he was acting like that....i dont see how you can say you TRUST him if you get mad at him for going out and having fun at a strip club or even tell him hes not allowed to go to strtp clubs!!

[jazz( jasmine )]

amanda where is your hubs at here in washington ?? if he is in everett the strip club is called honeys and its nasty looking from the outside and the strippers are always out front in bathrobes and smoking while squatting on the ground lol ...
before i got married i use to go to strip clubs with co workers ( on steak night although i never ate the steak lol ) and it was fun but i think that its because for me as a woman i could appreciate the pole tricks and i wasnt getting aroused off any of it ...
i tell my hubs i wanna put a pole in the house and take classes and he is like NOOOOO .. he is such a prude lool

[Casey Arrington]

You totally should. We've been wanting to put a pole up in our house for me but we don't have a good place to put it. ANd the classes are FUN!

[jazz( jasmine )]

yeahhhh i dont like the idea of my hubs going to a strip club ... i think that its not good for a marriage well at least not for mine.. i also feel the same about pornography ( its not allowed in my house and if he was deployed but i found out he was looking i wouldnt be too mad) i just think that once you are with a person you shouldnt need anything else i know i dont .. and yeah im human i see someone on the street and think ohh he is handsome and my hubs does the same but we dont do it in front of each other or be disrespectful... my hubs did kiss another girl while we were dating i forgave him and we have moved on but now he needs to keep himself from situations where things could go bad and why tempt your self is what i think....
plus if my hubs is gonna toss even a dollar at someone it better be my way cause he isnt paying anyone elses bills .
also i tell my hubs if he were to keep going to strip clubs i would find out which one and he might see my ass on stage and see how much he likes them then lol he cant stand it even when i have a little boob out cause he doesnt want everyone to see what he gets at home lol

[Amanda]

omg jazz its the strip club in bremerton, its called Toys Topless its so nasty from the outside...their sign is falling apart and he told me some of the guys went there once and when you go i you trade you money for poker chips and you throw those on the dance floor...i was like wtf and ewww thats so nasty and trashy...haha

[Marie.]

I personally dont like strip clubs cause I think they're dirty. But I wouldnt make a big deal out of it if my hubs wanted to go to a strip club. I know a girl who went banana's when her boyfriend said he was going to a strip club with his friends. I didnt get it, all they do is strip and give lapdances besides the people who pay like a hell of a lot extra but I honestly dont see what the problem is.

Unless of course he went by himself, then maybe I'd see what the problem is.

[LeZandra]

I love them! My husband and I go together. The first one we went to was for my 18th birthday, and it was his first time lso. We are always down to go when we have the money for it.

[Casey Arrington]

We have never been together. THe one he went to the other night was the first one he's been to since we've been married. I've told him since day one I don't mind, but he always said he didn't like them but they guys talked him into it this time lol! I'm about to start getting ready to go out with the girls...I'm SO EXCITED! Banana hammocks, oh yeah hahaha

[LeZandra]

Awesome! I went to a show with Kevin's female coworkers. It was a drag show, but the beginning had male strippers. I had no clue it was coming, but it was awesome!

[Casey Arrington]

I've always wanted to go to a drag show, a friend of mine might be taking me to one next month lol!

[Amy Elizabeth]

I've never had a problem with strip clubs. I used to go for fun because when the meat is all laid out like that, you dont really have to worry about being hit on! The music is generally not bad, either. My husband will go with a group of friends but we arent big drinkers and he thinks its a waste of money, more than anything. He's a terrific guy, so even if he went alone I think I'd be OK with it. Ok, maybe a little jealous, but not enough to make a stink about it. I know its window shopping, like Casey said, and I do it too!