Strip Clubs

[Casey Arrington]

So I want to see how other ladies and other couples feel about strip clubs. My husband is in Vegas right now, and went out last week. Strippers...I don't care. Money, yeah...he spent a little too much because he bought rounds for everyone and drank a little too much for himself. But he was completely honest and up front about it, and for that he knows I trust him and I'm not concerned.

Now tonight, my girlfriends and I are going out to the Male Revue. I told my husband last night and he said "I don't give a shit baby....go have fun" and that was that. We have an awesome marriage full of trust and I have no intentions of doing anything beyond the lines of trust we have. I'm mainly going out to have a goofy time and laugh my ass off, just like I know my husband did.

It does not bother me because we are both human beings and are perfectly comfortable with admitting it's nice to go window shopping...look but don't touch. I personally believe that being strict on strip clubs in your marriage shows your insecurities (no offense to anyone here, please don't take it personally) but I also know that some people don't mind them but just don't plain out don't like them, and that's okay, too!

So I just thought I'd think of something new to talk about. All opinions are welcome and while I don't expect sugar coating I also don't expect anyone to get upset over what someone says...nothing here is to be taken personally and to each their own.

So....what is YOUR stance on strip clubs?

[Casey Arrington]

The biggest problem I have with strip clubs, female ones for the most part, are not the strippers but the other men that are there. I went to a female one with a few of my friends a while back and the other men that were there were just so....freaky, weird I guess are the words? I felt sorry for the girls. When they came over to us they we laughing and having a good time with us, like they knew we were just there to hang out and talk, they were cool as shit. But then when they go over to the guys that are obviously there for *other* reasons they seem to immediately turn into robot mode. Strippers are, at least the ones I've encountered, really fun people that would rather have someone to talk to and laugh with then shake their shit in front of. Of course I'd tip her a bit here and there and I know some of them are all about the money, but when they're treated like objects you can always tell they're uncomfortable.

[Silver Xeno]

Have you ever seen that HBO series, G-string Divas? It's interesting to say the least. One or two of the girls seem to genuinely want to have guys ogle them and get turned on by getting money b/c others are turned on. Some are just sleezy. One girl is calling guys and making sure they're going to be at her club on a particular night...which surprised me. She's telling one guy how she's so excited to see him, and he's saying he really thinks she's someone special, but then later realizes she's just using him for his money, and she was surprised that he was hurt and angry over that. ?? Yeah, when you tell a guy to his face that you really like being with him and he turns you on ...and then you laugh at him when he asks you out...real classy Ms. Walks around naked. :p