Share 'ok just wondering is this normal or am i just a nut ball ??'

ok soooo im wondering if im the only person who thinks telling people multiple times what you want for your bday or christmas or whatever is kinda rude... dont get me wrong im not crazy i think its totally cool to let people know what kinda stuff you like ( if asked ) but i think its rude to tell them specifically what you want unless they ask you flat out ... this is where me and my hubs differ…