I hear you and I went through that and still am working through it. I had a talk with mine and we are working through it. I just told him we have to be friends as well as husband and wife. You are making it hard to talk to you and be honest. I told…
WOW Jazz that was really nice!! I know what you mean!! sometimes they are just mechanical and trained to be strong. I treasure the moments he is my husband instead of a soldier. Thanks for that post. That was good to read. Good luck and congrats I l…
Hi Tina, i am so sorry to hear he is acting like a child! You need to not feed his ways! Start taking care of you! Go do things to make you happy get a sitter and have some girl time. Sounds like he is just curious if he may have missed something an…
GRRRRR I miss the sweet hugs and good morning kisses!!! I can not believe its been so long and r&r flew by. but today is a new day and tomorrow is another day closer RIGHT???? I slept so well why he was here. Fell asleep in his lap during movies. We…
Hi Catlin, I am so sorry to hear he is being a Ass. You need to be MIA and not talk to him. No Email, no Phone and ask his famly not to mention you too him unless its to say how busy and happy you seem. If he knows you are upset he will just continu…
Hi Karen, Stay strong. So glad R&R went well i know what you mean. My love is having a harder time since going back from R&R then before he came home. He is just ready to be home and he is in a bit of a funk. I had to remind him a couple times its n…
Wow Sandi you are still the rock!!! You got this!!! You inspire me because from what I have seen you have not cracked and I have a few times. But one down and you are really on the home strech. How are you?? Looking good from here. Thanks for everyt…
Hey Heather Enjoy the R&R it went so fast for me. But now hes back there and I am actually pretty happy because now the next time he comes home is so close and not a vacation. and we are well ove 50% and are on the home strech. He is on pins and nee…
wow Kaitlyn I am so happy to hear hes comming home early. I just visited your profile. That is so awsome. I pray to get that news. There is word going around that may happen for me too. But I am not getting my hopes up. Nothing has been said its sti…
Hello everyone I hope all is well, Alot has happened since I have been on here last. Hubby came home for R&R. We had fun, We didn't get Preg like we wanted but as we all know things happen how they are supposed to. We did end up buying a house. I am…
Happy Birthday Valerie, Mine was on the 8th! Hubby left to come home for R&R on the 9th. Well guess what it is now the 11th. I am so frustrated have not slept in 2 days. Not that I have slept for the last 6mo but AAAWWWW! its 0244 and I am going nut…
Ok no one has been oin here for a while I hope all is stress free. Well I am frustrated my hubby was suposed to be home for R&R on the 9th! now it is 1600 hours on the 10 th and he is still sitting in a sand box and not looking to move until the 11t…
Stay strong. its going to be fun sending stuff of that beautiful little girl, pictures and all sorts of stuff. Dont worry about crying! I am the bigest cry baby ever! I try to hold back and that just makes it worst! my hubby takes it alot better now…
Ok so this is silly, My hubbs is comming his for his R&R, he just wants to lounge around and do alot of nothing. So my plan is a spa day! Money is tight and he is not the most social guy. I went and bought little tubs at wamart some calgone, marbles…
I know exactly how you feel. my husband is just losing his marbles. i swear there has to be something in the food they give them because it is like all of their common sense goes right out the window. i was like honey if you want a wife when you get home from this deployment you need to take a step back and breathe for a minute. Hang in there your hubby will be okay. They just go a little off from time to time and then they are over there where we have no idea what is going on and it makes it that much harder! well you aren't alone and if you ever need a friend i'm here and i know EXACTLY what you are feeling! now go get some rest lady!
Hey Brandi thanks for your support it really meant a lot to me! i swear they go crazy over there and i really just wanna smack some sense into them! well i know what you are going through at least lol stay strong! at least we have support in each other right?
yeah i know, my cousin is in the army too, hes in iraq right now, and he always complains to me because i count down, he tells me its not healthy and it only makes it harder, but i disagree, it makes it sooo much eaiser when i count down, it gives me something to look foward to, and most of the friends that i had before i got married are not friends with me anymore because they said i turned into a different person, that i over react to everything. but thats fine, they dont understand, and i have made TONS of new friends since hes been deployed. its just nice to have other women to talk to that know what were going through, and they dont judge, or think were drama queens.
just wanted to take a min to be a cry baby ... my husband has 24 hour duty today and i didnt get to spend christmas day with him ;-( wouldnt be so bad if i wasnt 9 months pregnant and didnt lose my mucus plug this morning ... and we dont know anyone…
yeah amanda my husband did the same thing . when i told him i was preggers he cried like a baby .. then after that he was mad that i was so sick all the time or other things.. then now like a month before she was due he started acting right again ..…
nope my hubs is the same way .. we have been together for 3 years married for almost 2 and today was the first time he ever bought me a gift... normally i get a card with just his name in it , but he got me an mp3 player this year... he isnt a roman…