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My husband is scaring me :'(
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honey, none of us are counselors (at least, I don't thik we are, lol), but 've been through a lot in my life and what he did to you physically and emotionally are both forms of abuse. and strong women are the ones who fix them dinner, - instead of t…
November 24
Tell him to go to counseling and if doesn't listen tell his command. This is something serious and it shouldn't be avoided. I know you love him but this your life and who knows what can happen next time you confront him. He needs help and he needs i…
November 19
ok ummm this is abuse not only mental but he has put his hands on you... i wouldnt stay there if i were you because its only going to get worse . a few months back my husband and i were having some of the same issues ...he was yelling alot having ta…
November 19
OMG! I can relate with you on a lot of levels! And, you are right to want to handle this before any deployment. Deployment can make this worse. Sometimes, initially, the asbsence can make the heart grow fonder. But, then if there are weakenss in eit…
November 19
Well, just go into the Family Advocacy office. They can help you with arranging counseling. Also, Military OneSource will do counseling with you for free, so insurance and command doesn't know. If he fails his PT test, he's gonna get a rash of shit…
November 19
Yeah, the whole falling asleep in class thing really ticks me off. I've never fallen asleep in class, and I've always thought it was rude and lazy when other kids did. When I was in college (a special program during high school where you get your As…
November 19
Sorry.... The last paragraph should say that he could end up getting kicked OUT for fucking UP AIT, too. When I hear about crap like this it just pisses me off, so what I'm typing doesn't always come out right. Anyway, the bottom line is, get help,…
November 19
Go to the Family Advocacy office on base if you don't want to talk to a Chaplain or his chain of command. They are trained to deal with issues like this and getting you the help that you need. Either that or leave, because this won't be the last tim…
November 19
It wont matter if your or his family believes your or not. His chain of command WILL believe you, the Chaplain WILL believe you. I mean, Christ...WE ALL BELIEVE YOU. Other people will too, hun. Every base (Post, in your case) has a counseling cente…
November 19
That's the thing though- I don't want to ruin his career or anything...I looked up basic personality disorders, and took the test based on what I see in him, and it was pretty bad. I don't want him to get discharged. He would hate me forever for tha…
November 19
Spousal abuse is treated very seriously by command...if you tell someone, they will FORCE counseling on him. It happend to a friend of mine..and her husband was just controlling, not abusive. They're Christians, so they opted to see the chaplain ove…
November 19
Yeah, my sister in law had her baby at 20 with my brother (who is Air Force). You kind of get that feeling when you're out and about on base, that you're supposed to be pregnant or toting some kids...I'm only 19, but I've seen some girls (GIRLS, lik…
October 29
Haha. That was where my husband and I were originally going to go to, and my mother looked it up on the national data base for sexual offenders. Not trying to scare you or anything, but if you have any kids, be aware that there percentage of child…
October 29
I for one, refuse to get it, and it makes me sad that they could force my husband to get it. I think they are over-hyping this whole thing to brainwash people into thinking they need the shot. Don't pay for it. It's not worth it, especially if you r…
October 29
October 23
I really don't have any advice. Everyone else has given pretty good advice. However.. I did want to say that girl.. you made me laugh my ass off!!!!!!!!! Just with your title. I know your situation isn't funny. I too HAVE A CRAZY MOTHER IN LAW... lo…
October 15

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My name is Hannah. I'm 19. and I married my high school sweetheart, Brock on February 7th, 2009. He just recently joined the Air Force, so I suppose I'm now a proud military wife!
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Before Brock left, we talked about getting new bands because we just have sterling silver claddaugh's. I probably spelled that wrong, but whatever, haha! I know his ring size and mine (7 and 6.5) so I thought I would surprise him with a new gold wedding band when he graduates! I'm allowed to engrave the inside and the outside, but I'm stumped as to what to do! I have a couple ideas though, tell me if any are really good and not cheesy!

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Posted on July 18, 2009 at 10:39pm — 5 Comments

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At 9:41am on November 29, 2009, Kayla Harvey-Belanger said…
Hey, do you live on base at Keesler or off? I'm moving down there really soon and I have no idea what the houses on base look like and I'm having a terrible time finding places off base.
At 2:17pm on October 28, 2009, Iris said…
Just wanted to say hi....Hope everything is going good for you =)
At 8:04am on October 23, 2009, Stefanie said…
Hey, just checking in with you! So, are you totally moved and settled in? How'd the move go since you had to leave POA with people that didn't have your best interest? Just been thinking about you and hope things are ok...
At 3:10pm on September 11, 2009, Stefanie said…
Hey! Just been thinking about you and wondered how it was going? Have you moved yet?
At 5:05pm on August 18, 2009, Iris said…
Hey, just wanted to say hi!
At 4:36am on July 19, 2009, Alysia M. Ramirez said…
Thank you for the comment its hard but he calls every morning and almost every night I just cant wait till r & r when i get him from the airport and get to treat him like a king and take care of him like I just miss talking to him face to face and doin little things like playing cards and holding his hands we are very intimate but idc about all that i just miss my best friend who is also my husband yeah know
At 6:37pm on July 18, 2009, USAF Wife *Jaymee* said…
Hey my name is Jaymee! I'm 21 years old and my hubby is an Imagery Analyst in the USAF...We live in New Mexico right now. Not the best town..but were working with it! Where is he at right now tech or basic? Hopefully you'll find out soon if you are joining us at this base! hehe
At 8:27pm on July 14, 2009, Iris said…
Oh and by the way...WELCOME!! This is a great site to be on, especially if you are a new military wife, as myself.
At 8:25pm on July 14, 2009, Iris said…
Hi Hannah, I'm Iris. My hubby started BT on June 28th for the AF. It's been hard being apart, but we are strong women (we have to be now). We'll get through this! If you ever want to talk, I'm here. I guess you can say, we're in the same boat :) Take care!
 
 

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