thinking of what is best for my baby and me from now on and nothing else

so i just found out today that my husband may not be able to be there for the birth of our baby..... around my due date they are suppose to go out to sea for 4 days and then after that they will be going in and out to sea doing trials after being dry docked.. even more so we dont have any family up here and i dont have any friends and it will be snowing so i might have to do this all on my own... im just hoping that i dont have to have a C section because getting up three flights of stairs on my… Continue

ok so i have a question... is it super hard to get my tricare swtiched back to my home town???? right now im pregnant and in the middle of my ob care here in wa my baby is due in january and i need to go home ... im tired of trying to work things out with my hubs and i feel like i need to go home to avoid the stress.. im not going to file for divorce but i feel that he needs to know what life is like without me... i have no support system here in wa and i just need to make sure i can see a doc w… Continue

OMG im mad at my stupid husband again... so as i said before i have gained a little weight sooner then i guess everyone thought that i would but its all in my belly ... not anywhere else and in fact i think that i have lost weight every where else so it makes my belly pop out even more...
when my mom came for a visit she kept talking about how i was getting big and blah blah and that i shouldnt be showing because she didnt show until like 6 months and i was just like everyone is different... it… Continue

soooo our 1 year being married is coming up and i have no clue what to get my husband ... of course he would love it if i get him a big ass flat screen tv or a playstation 3 but im not going to buy something to celebrate us being married that will more then likely cause him to not even speak to me or notice when i walk into a room so that is out of the question....
my husband isnt a romantic kinda guy and that leaves me not knowing what to get him for our anniversary ..
anyone got any suggestion… Continue

So... i have been having issues with my husband as of late and the thing that sucks is that im pregnant and its not really the best situation for me to be here any longer.. i dont think that i can deal with the stress anymore.
as some of you ladies know i have recently quit my nanny gig in order to be a stay at home wife and rest and prepare for the baby, which was something that both me and my husband agreed on together. i use to stay home when we first moved up here but ended up getting a job… Continue