thinking of what is best for my baby and me from now on and nothing else

Sooo as some of you ladies know ive been having issues with my husband and we have had our ups and downs and im sure there are more to come .... however, i must say that lately he has really been stepping it up and being a much more loving and open person . i dont know what happen to make him do a 180 but he really has and he is impressing me everyday...and i figure since i can get on here and vent when my husband isnt doing things right i should be more then willing to be able to get on here an… Continue

so im just a little grumpy about the fact that my hubs ship has been having a fast cruise ( where they dont leave port but they cant come home ) it just gets on my nerves cause its been like this for the past two weeks maybe 3 and i really miss my hubs ... it just sucks for him cause they have all the people working soooo hard i mean he is already gone for 14 hours at work 5 days a week on a regular basis not to mention that one of those days is a 24 hour duty and god forbid he has duty on sat .… Continue

ok question ladies .. my car has been acting up and its like a 2000 ford focus zx3 and its got like 100,000 miles on it ok so anyway i want to get rid of it and get a new one ... but the thing is its not starting now so i cant drive it to a dealership to get rid of it i think its something simple like the starter or something but the car needs new tires , tune up and now im guessing a starter but to me its not worth it to put the money into it to fix it when its got so many miles and im about to… Continue

so i just found out today that my husband may not be able to be there for the birth of our baby..... around my due date they are suppose to go out to sea for 4 days and then after that they will be going in and out to sea doing trials after being dry docked.. even more so we dont have any family up here and i dont have any friends and it will be snowing so i might have to do this all on my own... im just hoping that i dont have to have a C section because getting up three flights of stairs on my… Continue

ok so i have a question... is it super hard to get my tricare swtiched back to my home town???? right now im pregnant and in the middle of my ob care here in wa my baby is due in january and i need to go home ... im tired of trying to work things out with my hubs and i feel like i need to go home to avoid the stress.. im not going to file for divorce but i feel that he needs to know what life is like without me... i have no support system here in wa and i just need to make sure i can see a doc w… Continue