True Military Wives Confessions
Sometimes, the Real Battle is on the Homefront



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That is so cute that your son made you drawings and you are sending them to your hubby. He's going to love that. Im glad you got a chance to talk and I know exactly what you mean. TI feels like I wait all day for him to call and constantly am looking at my phone and then when he does call on of us isnt talking or there is this weird vibe. I totally do the same thing by building up a wall. I think thats why I keep myself so busy. When Im off and am not doing anything I go crazy. I always try to make our phone conversations ok and try not to freak out but its been getting so hard. I think my hubby feels the same way and he doesnt always tell me something is bothering him and then it comes out weeks later. It is soo hard sometimes to have phone conversations. I just want to have a marriage where we can talk face to face lol.
How are things going otherwise. Hopefully you will be able to talk to your hubby more frequently. Things still going ok with the new job. Are you still training? Is it still boring?
Fortunatly my asshole of a lieutenant has been on vacatin alot this summer but once fall starts I think he will be here every day. Ugh I gotta prepare myself for that. I do def feel older than 24 and its just soo irritating because my bachelors degree is in criminal justice and my LT. doesnt have a college degree not saying that if you dont have a degree your stupid cause I dont think that at all , but its like why treat me soo stupid. I do know what Im doing and talking about to some extent. I may not be a cop but I know enough. Oh well I think no matter where you work there is always going to be someone like that!!! IT does give me some satisfaction to walk out of his office after he treats me like a moron to swear at him under my breath haha.
Is your mom still visiting you? I bet you are getting so excited for your hubby to come home. I still dont know how you've done multiple deployments!! You are such a strong person! It def takes a strong couple to be a military couple!!! And rem if you are ever having a bad day Im here for you anytime.
Have a good day tommorrow!!
That sucks that you have to watch your back.... i would not do good there.... i am a very out spoken person 90% of the time and if you make me mad you will know it hahahahaa
We do deserve a break!!!!! We NEED a break!!! hahahaha
Day four of my five day orientation.... here we go... hahhaa
Im glad that you like your job so far. That is very cool that your boss is nice lol. That always helps. I have 3 bosses total and two I absoultly love, one is actually in afghanistan himself jsut for 6 wks. He is in the airforce so I miss him at work. But the third one is a complete dick. I hate working when he is working. Just because Im a clerk he talks down to me like I am nothing. I cant stand when people do that. Hello, Im not stupid please dont treat me like one. He is the only one who does it. And he is not that much older than me. Go figure.
Im sorry you havent gotten a chance to talk to your husband. Are doing ok? How are things going otherwise?
I cant wait to start school. Though Im such a blonde. I signed up for the wrong class and luckily I was able to switch it to a different one but that class is tues nights so Im going to have to miss 4 hours of work every tuesday so that sucks but oh well. I am very excited for the classes. Im taking 4 total. One is online, 2 meets once a week and the other meets once every two weeks so it shouldnt be too bad.
So just two more weeks till school starts. It will be nice to focus on something other than being lonely and work.
How is your son doing? A few more months till your hubby comes home!!!
Im not sure if you had more Orientation... I have it all week long... what a long week it has been too ahhahaa...
I am headed into day three of it but i could barely sleep last nite, and it was because of a comment a co-worker made. Yesterday a bunch of people figured out Jordan was in Iraq.... and one of them came up to me and started a conversation about it..... and i was saying how hard it has been with this mission.... and she responded with "well you knew what you were marring into"
I just dont get it.... why do people think we chose military and then found our husbands.... sure there might be some girls like that.... but i am so not one of them.... i even told him husband the first nite i met him to have a nice life because i am not doing the military thing.... what am i supposed to do, deny my love, deny my heart just becasue he is in the military.... i just dont get it.... i just dont get why people think we wanted this life style.... i just wanted him....
ok i needed to get that off my chest.... i needed to get it out before seeing her, and the rest of the staff again.... so i now have 40 min to get ready and then off to day three...
i sure hope your orentation is going better than mine..... (ok so the rest of it wasnt all that bad.... i just got really annoyed with that comment it killed my day.....)
Talk to you soon
How's it going? How is training? Orientation for jobs is always sooo boring. I agree all that paperwork and stuff yuck!!! And 70 dollars for parking is alot. At my work its $110 dollars due on the 1st of the month and then on the 21st of the month they reimburse us. Isnt that so stupid. I mean Im glad we get reimbursed but whats the point of paying for it and then getting reimbursed 2 weeks later lol. At least you wont have to pay it again though it stinks that they dont reimburse you
So do you think you are going to like the job? I hope you do. It sounds awesome!!!
How is everything else going? How is your husband doing? My husband and I are doing good. It has been awhile since we had a chance to talk for more than 5 minutes but we were able to talk today for like an hour so it was soo nice. We def needed that. And Im hoping he gets the packages that I sent soon cause I think he is a little lonely for home
I didnt get to see army wives. I had gotten rid of cable a few weeks ago so I was watching army wives on lifetime's website but they dont have the latest episode on the website so I was pissed I missed it. Oh well
Not much is new here. Just work as usual. Im actually excited and anxious for school to start. I was looking to see if they had an autism society in north carolina and they do so Im hoping that I can get a job there once I move. Ad sad and nervous as I was to move now I just want to be there and settled. I want my husband home!!!
So Jordan called yesterday.... God i miss him... anyways... he is doing okay... He has been swimming in mud the past three days and he was hoping to shower soon..... a dozer got stuck in this chest deep mud that they thought was a dried up lake.... and the guys had to lay on their chests and use their hands to dig the mud out around the dozers wheels..... hahaha... that sucks....
Ok well im off to day two of orientation.... i hope your day goes better than mine will hahahahaa
Talk to you soon :)
i told them in June when i signed the contract.... i am find with just my married name.... but even my email is wrong.....
I hope it gets fixed soon!!! I dont want to confuse my students... i do NOT have a hyphenated name, i just dropped mine and took his.... grrrrr..... oh well nothing i can do now but tell them again and again :)
I did see army wives... it was very good..... i dont want to spoil any more than i already have incase you want to catch a re-run.... I know i see the last epesoid rite before the new one on sunday nites....
I hope the rest of your week goes really good in the new job.... this is my last week with no kids, and i just found out one of my co-teachers has 36 students in her room.... and i was told i would only have 33.... but i am thinking i will have more... time will tell i guess.....
Hope you had a great weekend
Oh i cannot stand it when they tell me that since i have been through this before i should beo kay with it OR MY FAVORITE.... well you knew what you were marring into..... it is like oh ok let me give up the love of my life because he is marine.... yea that sounds like a good plan.... some people...
so thank you for the words i SO needed to hear... i mean read... well you know what i mean hahaha
Yea i will watch army wives this week for sure!!!
Phelps got 8 golds... he got the last one tonite... that is just amazing...
My hubby is doing okay... he is really home sick and in the past week we have talked for only ten minutes total... maybe fifteen... but he was calling every day, every other day... so to go from that to this... sucks... and it was a month mission, then he said two weeks, but i do not... i dont think he knows... so yea.. it just really sucks... and my dad is sending my mom flowers on the first day of school and i know if jordan were home i would be getting something too... and it just sucks having to do all of this without him... having to tell all of my co-workers one at a time my husband is in Iraq, we normally get to talk often, but he is on mission now, he is going to be home by novmber hopefully and he is out in december.... time and time again... really sucks... and again if he wasnt on mission i dont think it would be so bad... but with him gone... it just sucks....
How is your weekend going...
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